"When someone bears witness to our pain,
it becomes survivable."
~ Judith Herman

Getting Messy

If you found your way to my door, you've likely known depths of pain no soul ought to endure.

Pain born of intimate betrayal and deceptive sexuality.

Brutal, reality-shattering, life-altering horror.

A tsunami to the life you once knew.

Perhaps you find yourself disoriented, confused, uncertain.

What is this life? Who am I? How will I survive this?

Perhaps you find yourself brimming with rage.

How could this happen? Is there no justice? Will this nightmare ever end?

Perhaps you find yourself numb with apathy.

Why bother caring anymore? Isn't hope simply foolishness?

Wherever you are, you are no longer alone.

And this is what I call the messy middle.

Somewhere between the life that once was and the life that isn't quite yet.

It's where you sift through the rubble in order to reclaim

truth, dignity, and empowerment as you journey back to the heart of you.

It'd be an honor and a joy to support you along the way.

Let's get messy, together.

Supporting fellow betrayed partners through the messy middle is my passion.

I have deep love and compassion for women who have experienced the

shattering of their hearts and lives at the hands of deceptive sexuality.

And I have profound respect for the resilience, strength and grace

these women so often embody. They bring new meaning and depth to beauty from ashes.

So many wise and wonderful women are to thank for helping me

reclaim myself and my life and turn my own tragedy into beauty.

And so, if I'm the right fit for your journey, it would be a privilege and an honor

to walk beside and support you as your own story of healing unfolds.

Want to know more of my story?